Ask Baba Ali - "My brother has a girlfriend"
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Asalamu Alaikum Ali,
The video was great alhamdulilah and I agree parents do make halal very very hard.
It’s funny ..it’s perfect.. I like it very much
Congratulation for broadcasting the new episode. Am I the first person to watch because I couldn’t find it on youtube and I want to tell friends to watch it on youtube.
great job bro
keep 'em coming
salaam
Baba Ali - Ever since you made the announcement about Ask Baba Ali and I was hoping such a question/topic would be addressed! This is an increasingly common issue amongst the youth today and yes, I agree with you, that in many cases, it is partially the fault of the parents. I'm here in Europe attending grad school and at one point I had 3 Sisters as classmates and they all have this issue of having to sneak around behind their parents backs just because the parents are making it difficult to choose the person they wish to marry on their own. Thus, such individual end up going down that wrong path and its unfortunate. I have also had issues about what to say, but as these Sisters are not related to me, its a bit different than the Sister who sent in the question. Anyways, I was laughing the entire time (clapping even!) and I certainly hope that this series will be popular inshallah. Can't wait till next Friday!
LOL well done excellent Video
Jazakhallah Khair
I like the new video and topic too! Ok he did his part of making the video and now its up to us to let everyone know about it so we can keep this show on the air.
myspace, facebook, blogs
Hilarious! Can't wait for more!
Finally! Good to see you back alhamdulillah...
Friendly criticism: less drama please :) ....and try to follow the Reminder series style a bit more inshaAllah
But great stuff nonetheless...
JazakumAllahu khairun
Salamalaikum brother, that was an excellent video that Insha'Allah can benefit brothers and sisters in that unfortunately increasingly common situation. Keep up the good work, I look forward to your upcoming episodes!
OG
Jazakallah Khair bro for another brilliant vid, looking forward to all the rest. keep up the goodwork!
wasalams from Scotland.
Good stuff, mashaAllah!
parents really do make it hard. theyre making me and future wife wait until Im a doc. and im not even in med school yet! what are we supposed to do?!
Salaam alaikoum, brother 'Ali.
Alhamdullah, the video is very instructive and funny. Although I'm going to have to agree with the brother/sister that recommends lil' less drama and more of a "Reminder" videos style. :):):)
Can't wait for more interesting topics, inshaallah. :)
May Allah reward you and all your behind-the-scenes crew for your efforts. Ameen.
Salaam alaikoum!
Great job, brother! Mashaallah!
Maybe you could answer or address more than one question per video inshaallah ;)
Can't wait for more!
Jazakumullah khairan, wa salaam alaikoum.
Very Very good Mash'Allah!!!
SALAM ALEIKOM ALI
This video is the greaaaaaatest!!!!
keep it up,great job!!
halal very hard?what about non muslim parents?grrrr
so funny,cant wait to see the next one
let me go rewatch it
I really liked it, its especially related to muslim people in the US because this happens alot here. I like the humor to keep up the good work!
Assalamu alaikum
It's nice to see you back, and you seem far more refreshed AH
The episode was good mashaAllah, the length was good - short and sweet, and the topic very, very well-chosen.
I think it may get it difficult not to enter 'scholar' territory, and i pray that inshaAllah you continue to enlighten the ummah without do so.
I learn a lot from you, may Allah keep you in the best of health and Eeman
Salamu alaikum
That was awesome. Thanks for the great video!
I only have one small request; could you make them a teeny bit longer? I like the series and really would like to hear more than 6-8 min on matters like this.
Thank you and looking forward to watching loads more!! :)
i agree with the anonymous guy that said it was different. not really that good, i liked how it was in the past seasons
I got a q?
Is Baba Ali single?
Salam Alaykum,
I personally loved it! I agree with you 100%. My parents made it hard on me while i was growing up and i swore to never do that with my children insha Allah.
I disagree with the person that said it was the worst that you have done. I dont think Ask Baba Ali is supposed to be about dawa alone.
May Allah SWT reward you and your crew and increase us all in Imaan and taqwa AMEEN
Assalamualikum,
I'd sincerely hope that the video-series will continue Inshallah.
You have chosen a much-needed topic to present in your video/
But I think the main cause for girlfriend/boyfriend thingy arises due to mixed education - and nowadays parents claim that if you don't got to a mixed school, you won't learn to socialize and stuff & be too shy to approach the opposite sex for important matters etc. How do you convince them not to think so?
Slamz,
Alhamdulillah,I think it was a good video and some times when you need advice you forget to see the obvious things and how it truly is,so its good your pointing things out from an islamic prospective.
But i do agree with brother/sister that recommends lil' less drama and more of a "Reminder" videos style. :)Because before i think it was like a normal video,now it is more drama and not realsitic drama.
I look forward to seeing the rest of the videos,and i hink theyll be good and will enlighten us on stuff that is going on in the Ummah,which nobody really talks about!I think its a good new series,to try something new,and look at the same topics from a different angle,from the viewes propective.
Look forward to seeing next weeks video,inshallah Allah will make them a sucess!
Oh yeah! Parents make the halal really really hard.
Give us some more vids Bro insheAllah!
as-salaamu alaykum,
It is good that you are continuing doing this, and I think the advice thing is good, but this particulary video wasn't very good, in my opinion.
Perhaps is was good to people who are in their teens, but those of us who are older (I am 34) and have been following this thing since the beginning might be turned off from future episodes.
I think that the humor might have been too much geared toward the youth, and I didn't find it all that funny.
Also, there is no Islam in this video. This is just your opinion, and you don't back up your opinion with any ayat or hadith. For example, you could have mentioned that Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, said to marry when we are young, as this would avoid the whole boyfriend/girlfriend issue. The you could give advice to knock this idea of waiting until you are finished with college etc to get married right out of the minds of the parents who promote such ideas upon their children.
Like I said, what you are trying to do is good, but I think it needs to be a little more fine tuned. However, this is only the first episode, so insha'Allaah, they will improve.
May Allaah reward you.
Salaam aleykoem
Barak allahou fiek brother for this new episode!
I like "ask baba ali" as much as i like the remiders serie!
It is funny and you give good advise...
Sometimes people also come to me for advise i know its not easy to give and sometimes people just thinnk you dont know what you are talking about so you cant give advise. Gair inscha'Allah....
But i really love this episode and i hope there are more inscha'Allah
Hamdoelilah you took the advise of that friend serious and hamdoelilah you are now on the good way.
Keep up the good work Inscha'Allah
Your sister in islam from Belgium
Anissah
Wa aleykoem salaam wa ramato allahi wa barakatoho
Asalaam Ahlykoem,
3 words: Great,instructive and educational!
keep it up Inshallah
JazakAllah khayr for this absolutely amazing video. Love your creative way of giving dawah, yes this is still Dawah, i guess, or may be not, but then it is, you are, nways...
Well to me it seems that once you are determined not to tread the path of haraam & shaitan finds no other way to bring you back(in case u were there in the first place), then Shaitan makes the hallal hard, and easiest way to do that, u said it ...by the way I will show this video to my parents... =)
Salam aleikum, loved it !!
and good point. I am a convert, so do not really have this problem...but I do know SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many born muslims that are not even married yet and it's all because of this pressure you mentioned. Incha'allah you spread some light and help ppl see things in a differnet way..using your humour :)
jazak'allah khair...
oh and I was surprised to see the add...but was cool.... but where can we get these things? none here iin montreal! my kids would die for these lol
hah luv it. I'm glad u have started making videos agen. I hope u keep them going inshallah.
Salaaam
mashallah liked the video n soo tru thanks for that...
can we ask a question here...?
hmmm i try
i want to know how u go up to some1 n how to tell them what they are doing wrong?
as in how they dress or talk... n sad to say its for the some sisters...the hijaab one u did was good but how do u go about it when it comes to tel them not to chill (Over chilling) with guys who are no1 but uni ppl...?
from a sister in the uk :)
jk
-"Kay's brother has a giirrlllfriend"
-"No way!"
-"And she 1 1/2 years old!"
lmao! best part
You kept saying parents need to make the halal easy, but do not mention how to do that. What should parents do to make the halal easy? Do you let your child get married to the first person they think they are in love with at age 13? You go through many crushes before you know what you want out of a spouse. Please explain what the parents should do or allow.
Assalaamualaikum!
The ending of the video was great, mashallah! It was of great benefit on how to deal with this situation. However, I found the first part of the video just silly. I was close to closing the video until the advice came in.
I can't wait to see what more there is!
asslamu alaikum wrwb
masha allah nice video brother. keep it up. hope to see more from you.
wassalamu alaikum wrwb
sallam brother i loved this video it really helps, it was a good topic... and i really cant wait until next friday...
jazaka allahu khairan!
sallam brother that was a funny video ...lol... keep it up with the good topics, hope u can make another one next friday! :)
jazaka allahu khairan!
Salamz
I have to agree with the comments above it was way too much drama...I am not a parent yet but I think it is unfair to blame everything on the parents. True they have a lot of culture but they are also doing their best for their kids and I don't think the parents conspire to make things difficult for their kinds. I don't think you presented a real valuable lesson on this video rather an entertaining skit with much drama (looked like it was acted out) We do understand that it will be hard to address issues in 7-8 min but keep things in perspective. Thank you and keep up the good work. Salamz Abdullah
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heyy brother alii
am jus lovin ur videos every time....!! theyy are great!!!
i wanted you to please talk about this one issue that is realli bothering me!!!!!
this is when i see a hijabii sister doin something haram e.g. having boyfriends...huggig boys all around school etc. etc. i feel realli bad like dont you know that allah is watching you...and i am like y are you trying to be all the decent and good girl and showing people o look i am such a good muslim because i am wearing a hijab and actualli betraying every one...and the worse thing is that i cant do anything about it, i cant just go up to them and tel them that...i dont have the guts and they will be like mind your own bussiness...WHAT DO I DO..???...and then when they see a sister not wearing a hijab, lecturing her about how you should and blablabla.... its also that the first thing people judge you on..is whether you are wearing a hijab or not.....and if you are then :you are the angel (NOT) because i think it realli is about the person self!!!!
My one big Question to these kind of sisters is: WHY DO YOU WEAR ONE WHEN YOU WILL NOT GET THE CREDIT FOR IT.... because i think sisters not wearing one and do acting like good muslims are the acual angels...!!!
ofcoure if they do wear one and act like it are the best...but you know what i meann......
alhumdulliah, this was an excellent. great balence of humor and information. really enjoyable.
hey hey heyy brother how isit going...???
i have a question....
how do i handle this...
i love a boy... not form the country i come from and not the same religion.. he wouldnt change the religion for me because he is reallii religious (christian) himself....
and i have 2 marry one from my own country....
i cant run awayy.. cz that is just bad... but it is the onlii option tho.. cz my parents are realli strict and they would kill me if i tell themm... soo no point in that
WHAT DO I DO...please help baba ali!!!!!
if the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم told us to marry who we agreed on thier piousness and manners, (muslim ofcourse) what do you think about marrying someone who just "says" he is muslim so he can marry you>
if he was a non-pious muslim, then we would say no
what do you think of a non muslim, who may become muslim
what do you think of a non muslim who won't even consider!! because he is a religious christian!!
fyi: my father embrased islam so we can marry my mother (as you know, a woman can't marry a non-muslim) ofcourse he is not religious, doesn't practice at all (no praying fasting, he drinks, and even may swear "insulting a muslin's religion which is pure kufr!) and i have had problems with him concerning islamic issues, my 2 sisters are not raised on islam, and my mom is not becoming a better muslim because of his pressures>>>...
why?
my mom did not follow the Prohphet's advice صلى الله عليه وسلم
if you marry for the sake of Allah, then do it as He wants>
if you claim to do it for Him, and do it your way, then guess who will end up losing?
salam,
love the new show,
hate the opening theme song
seems like you have alot of anger inside you... may allah forgive you!!!
salam 3likoum
I am french girl !!! I don't speak good english!! But your vidéos are goog, very good! You are right !! Allh o akbar ! Allah i hawnek o y hawen gah el muslimin!
Wafa
Salam 3likoum
I am a French girl.
I have just seen your site and your videos, they are too indeed!
I find that you are right! That your message of l Islam crosses the whole world!
Allah o akbar
Wafa de france
French girl hmhmhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
French girl hmhmhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
wafaaaa it me ba ba ali
I thought the choice of topics was excellent. This is an issue that needs dealing with.
Your words were very good.
I can't wait to see next week's episode.
Well done!
Salaam
This is great, keep them coming brother Ali.
Salam!
Mashallah great video... you have been given some critical comments but the positive ones far outweigh them so do take that ratio at face value... there will always be critics... I hope you continue to the work you do... nobody is perfect but I believe in your service and sincerity so please continue this service for Islam and for all the rest of my brothers and sisters...
Again, great video, work, message and service to Islam as always...
Salman
luv the show soo tru too
great show ... but i got a Ques. i know its haram with all the boyfriend girlfriend thng but what about when both are mature and really fell in love and thn like after a couple months or so the guy came and asked for her from there parents is that haram or is it like allah will not barak with there marriage cuz they didnt start it the right way like you know they fell in love first im like all confused about this issue.. cuz i once heard like a hadeeth saying if u didnt start something the right halal way it might not end up right... so plzzzzzzzz help mee here if you could answer
salaam
excellent come back mashallah
hope to c many more episodes inshallah
keep up the good work and great advice
Salamahlikoum,
I am agree about what you said regarding parents behaviour. They used to say : don't choose an husband : too black, too white, from another country than my parents country, and I live in France. I think that is a the real problem of our generation. Boys have not the same problem because they do "what they want" (unfortunatly for us...), go out with french girls etc... and at the end ask for us to get married even if they don't know us and don't want to know us. Boys and girls from north african living in France or maybe other country are in two worlds different because they have been educated in a different way SO I sum up the situation : we don't want to marry with boys from our country (too different...) we can't get married with black, white, foreigner BUT parents don't leave us free and always always ask for this : my daughter when are you going to think about marriage ??? a big problem, isn't it ? lol well I will be very happy if you will speak about the problem a lot of grils meet in France and maybe on other countries.
Thanks & JazakAllahokheir,
It was a pleasure to watch your video again.
Mel
Paris - France
27 years old
Me again,
Just to help you to improve your futur video :
- 1st point : my opinion about "Ask Baba Ali" songs is : you can do better than that, I am sure :)
- 2nd point : in all culture, education (culture : we should take the best only and let the rest), etc...I think there is good and bad points so please try to show this on your video then youngs will not say : yes! parents are too old in their mind etc... al hamdulilah there is a lot of bad things I don't follow thanks to my parents ...
- 3rd point : Joke in your last videos are better, why ? because you explain how is ridiculous the way some people used to think and do (ex : the (fake) doctor who recommend a kebab because he THINKS it has a good taste lol) is the opposite of islam and then you show us what islam say (we don't have to THINK but learn fromm scholar) and how beautifull/logic..it is. Then we see and compare and al hamdulilah right person choose the best solution and the best solution is Islam.
Anyway, I am not agree with the person who does not want your advise and prefers hadith and Quran. I don't know if she/he ever reads the Qur'an because in the Qur'an, we learn that : make advise between us is really important (surat 103 v 3)
May Allah bless us and give us Al Firdaws al a'la, amine
Mel
Paris- France
ps : regarding my firs comment, I would like to add that not all boys from north africa) in France are bad ;) it's just that we just see them hear about them and there is not a lot of muslim, I mean the real one, the one who pray... :) anyway Allah knows why and how thinks happens, that's why in any situation al HamduliLAH :) as my teacher say : kheir kheir kheir
good advice! nice one ali!
Great job! Masha'allah! Just don't blame the parents! As parents of adult children, this is an issue that concerns us. From our experience, it is the fault of our collective ummah, in particular when an Islamic value system tries to "blend in" with anything other than Islamic tenets...these are the problems that arise. The best defense against these difficulties is definitely communication within the family, as well as a sound foundation in Tawhid (the oneness of Allah), without which belief not only will the individual crumble under the slightest problem or temptation, but the whole ummah crashes as well. May Allah always be our only Guide and may we only put our Trust in Him to Guide us thru this quagmire called life, ameen.
Salam,
the video was good. As for those that said that there was too much drama- i think that it is just Mr.Ali's style. He is naturally really funny. He is just dealing on subjects that are actually going on and are upsetting for people to hear because of his frankness.
anyways, the video was great. Kepp 'um coming.
EXCELLENT
Salaam Baba Ali,
The vid was great, masha Allah.
Jazakallah Khair
jazakAllah brother...
good piece.waiting for more!
MashaAllah! as an American mother of five, I agree, some parents have no idea. listen to your kids and don't be so quick to say haram or you'll shut down the lines of comunication that are so important. Ali, your comedy softens the ears and hopefully the heart too. please keep up the good work and may Allah reward you and your crew.
MashAllah! Jazak Allah khair brother!!
Salam Alykium brother,
Great video mashalah! Keep up the great work, you have my support now and always!
Jazaka Allah khair for all your efforts
Asalamualaikum!'As the hearts are only in the hands of the creator'. I think this quote sums up this video and it's a message that will stick with me inshAllah. Great reply. May Allah reward u for ur efforts.
Wasalam
Masha Allah! Great job brother. Well done.
Alhamdulillah this is a great video
Mashallah Great job brother Ali! keep up the good work, inshallah you hav my support.
Mashallah great work ma brtha!Jus to let to noe tat der r people down here in australia watching and alhamdulillah we thank you for your contribution
Assalamu alaikum br,
SubhanAllah great video and great answer. May Allah continue to bless you with greater success.
Wassalam.
Assalamu Alaikum,
You are great.
For doing this for muslims.
I am going to send this site to all my freinds and relatives.
Jazakallah
Salaam
Assalamu Alaikum,
You are great.
For doing this for muslims.
I am going to send this site to all my freinds and relatives.
Jazakallah
Salaam
Mashallah this videos are really good. i love this video and i hope it will help me in the future or maybe now. i no i have been commiting sins these days. but i hope i recover and do the right things everday.You have taught all muslims the right thing to do. cant wait 4 da nxt eposodes inshallah.
assalaamualeikum, mashallah really nice video and amazing project. hope inshallah all the best for you. if you guys need help, let me know!
MashaAllah you are talented and creative....it was very refreshing Ali.
Mashalllah :D
i truly truly absolutely positively loved it
It Was a Great Job... God bless... Keep it up brother
Assalaamualaikum baba ali, i would like to thank you for posting these videos on the net. they are very straight to the point and very rich in knowledge. Please keep this up, may ALLAH (swt) bless you for your knowledge and hopefully live long inshallah
thanx for coming out w/ a whole nother season....!!!
luv the show bro!
keep it up!
really this video i needed so much
i have the same prob with ma brother
and i tried several times actually
i ll try again in shaa allah and i hope it works..,
jzak allahu khayrn...go on..,
Excellent current issues are being dealt with humour and in a lighthearted way... keep up the good work mashaAllah!!!
First of all these is amazing and so true
people makes halal looks so hard
so their kids just take the short way
and start to think about how to get this halal thing by haram way !because alot of kids here in our life they are just looking for love or some one care about thim so most of the time they cant find this from their parents ,,etc
and alot of reasons
thanks for that and jazak allah khayran
Note: i cant post these videos in my website because it's in english and it's not translated in arabic so most of the people they will be not able to understand it =(
slmz...
great series,
jazakallah for enlightening and entertaining me.
my brothers and sisters here have praised you and said everything i wana say, so all i can say now is, Masha allah and i hope Allah takes you from strenght to strength!
Take care
i agree its a rly good video, honestly changing a brother is harder then simply telling him....usually they need to figure it out themselves for a real change...BUT they do hear you when you talk to them or if they have a good friend that doesnt have a girl as well and advises him in is best interest...it always works out...
Asalam O Alikum,
i LOVE all your videos, and they way you explain everything.
And i wanted to ask you.
i know drawing pictures of human beings haram, but i don't know why.
can you please explain..
also is taking pictures haram?
cause some people say it is, and some say its not.
JazakhAllah Khair =]
and my Allah give you happiness in your life.
salam to All,
MY dearest Bro (addressing you from the deep of my heart and not jus a mere addressing).. How you doing,I am really glad that i found out your Videos, As i used to watch ISNA conventions on you tube , I have seen one session of yours, It was fabulous.I am from India,(kerala)(23 years) ,Now residing with my parents In Saudi Arabia .I have seen some videos of your from you tube, but not from ur website , today is the first day i have browsed your website,Insha allah i ll be a regular user of it from now on and will Support you how much ever i can .Allah has bestowed everyone with some special skills, YOu use your Skills to disseminate the message of ISLAM .look at Yusuf Islam, samiyusf etc.. they are using their skills for the same, you are true example and model for everyone ,"how to use your skills Productively".I would like to know why don't You publish all your videos In a CD and and U can sell it (I am not telling from a business perspective )rather it would reach all the audience, other than browsing your site and you tube.. make it an ISBN standard.. I believe you will get the support from all the people >dude keep in touch .
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stop being a crackpod mate
slamualikum,
I am Shariq Ahmad 22 years old from India. Just wanted to say you are doing tremendous job Please don't stop it i mean don't stop producing videos . we love them. Allah give you health and strength to extend it.Ameen.
slamualikum,
I am Shariq Ahmad 22 years old from India. Just wanted to say you are doing tremendous job Please don't stop it i mean don't stop producing videos . we love them. Allah give you health and strength to extend it.Ameen.
Great Work !! God bless you
AssalamuAlaikum Ali Bhai,
Ur Videos r really great Mashallah and best part is that they have message in them...
So I would Like to request u to keep posting.Jazakallah!!
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i also like your vedio but its very hard to explain. because the muslims dont want to live a simple life as islam said. when parents tell their kids to get marry, then kids dont want to marry they are bz in studies and working and ofcourse friends gfriends.. and as you make this vedio it effect me at some how because i have older brothers and i grown up wit them ofcourse.. but it always been like i can not do this and that because i m the girl and they can do stuff because they r the guys..so i never knew what grls can do.. n now i m 24 years old.. i found out myself in islam what are the differences.. but after knowing i m confidence on myself and very disapoint that alot of muslims around me dont understand.
Great job.Brother keep making video. we always support you.
Great video :)
u r such a fany guy!and usually i dont like fanny people,i cant stand to see more!
Salaam Baba Ali,
Thanks for the videos. May Allah reward you for your good deeds and intentions. I just wanted to say that I heard these words couple of times in your videos, ".. in God's hands..". It is not appropriate to say that. Because God has no hands, as He (God)is clear from the creations. Instead we should say "in God's control or whatever God has willed..". The same advise for your wife, as I have seen her saying these words in her videos. It's not made up, but I learned from the knowledgeable and trustworthy Muslim brother. Thanks again.
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